Getting out of your own way

There’s a big world of joy, connection and freedom on the other side of our stories about how things should be, how we should feel and how we should behave in life.

Join us for two days of bringing meditative awareness to what it is like to be human, together. And let’s practice showing up in integrity with what’s most true for us, moment to moment.

We (Tom and Alby) have invited Peter Munthe-Kaas to join us from Sweden, bringing his mastery and 10+ years of experience in the Relating Arts to Aarhus.

As we practice together, let’s get curious about the stories we tell ourselves about how things should be.

Let’s explore which kind of magic becomes possible when we let life surprise us, instead of following a book of rules we never wrote.

Come explore how to get out of our own ways!

What will it look like?

The weekend is based on the practices of Surrendered Leadership Circling and Relatefulness Flow. Through these practices we get to discover what is actually happening in us and between us, and can experiment with how to show up in more integrity with our own truth.

This is a mix of mindfulness and relating, where we pay closer attention to what happens moment to moment, but instead of keeping it on the cushion, we practice showing up in the world with this keener attention, in connection with others.

As leaders we’ll model the practice and this way of being. And you get to immerse in it, together with us.

We’ll be focusing on getting out of our own way. On the ways we put ourselves and our stories on top of how we actually want to show up, and of who we actually are.

Check out this video we made where we talk with Peter about the themes of the event:
https://youtu.be/9_LUp_1IjS4

First time?

If this is the first time it is likely that you will discover a new way of participating in life. Or re-discover a way of relating with yourself and others that you forgot you knew, and learn how to bring it back to your life.

You’ll most likely need some support in the beginning, but with patience, curiosity and trust, you will start getting in touch with new ways of being yourself. Even if it’s not fully clear what is happening. (This sense never goes away btw, but it’s a great feeling.)

You’ll be supported to practice how to welcome more of yourself in the world. How to participate more in life, how to welcome more of your emotional experience, how to show up more as you long for and how to recognize and acknowledge more of your wants, needs and boundaries.

For me this is an inter-personal development practice. Where you don’t just develop yourself on your own but instead, together with others.

If you wanna hear more about benefits you can reach out to me (Tomás Damesón on messenger) and tell me what is tricking you out in your relational life. Not just about your relationships with others, but also with yourself.

Who will lead this event?

Peter Munthe-Kaas is coming from Sweden. He’s got 10+ years of committed practice in Circling & Surrendered Leadership and various other relating practices. And on top of being a master in this practice, he is such a kind and lovely human being. One of his latest projects is Relating Arts: A website where you can find and learn about many of the practices that help us relate more truthfully and lovingly.

Alberte (Alby) is a shining star of love. Sharp, committed to love, playful and getting a symbolic Ph.D. on boundaries. Growing up learning that the way she needs to be in the world is being quiet and easy to be with, she has been shedding layers upon layers of this conditioning and accessing more and more of who she actually is: her deep aliveness, power and capacity to hold herself and others in love. She’s certified by one of the big schools of circling – Transformational Connection, and has practiced and led for the last 2.5 years.

Tomás is a springy ball of playfulness and love. Attentive, wondrous and committed. He’s completely dedicated to spread and hone the Relating Arts to Aarhus and the world. He is most likely the person that will cry the most in the room, out of love. He has been practicing, leading and mapping this practice relentlessly for the last 2.5 years.

Where is it?

Tom & Alby’s cozy home north of Marselisborg, Aarhus, Denmark (address shared after sign-up).

We’ll have at least 2 big rooms to practice. Potentially a 3rd medium sized one.

Price:

The price for the weekend is tiered.
– Tier 1: The first 3 tickets cost 275 euro
– Tier 2: The next 3 tickets cost 300 euro
– Tier 3: The last 4 tickets cost 325 euro

If you need financial support to be able to join this event, reach out to me at tomas.dameson@gmail.com to apply for a scholarship / discount. This work is not just to sustain our living, but also to strengthen our community in Aarhus, and we want you to be able to participate.

Max participants: 10 + 3 hosts and space-holders.

Food:

At the venue we’ll offer Snacks and Tea.

Bring your own food for lunch, or buy from the nearby restaurants

Schedule

Saturday
10:15 – 10:30 — Arrival
10:30 – 18:30 — Surrendered Leadership Circling
1h 30m of lunch break included

Sunday
10:15 – 10:30 — Arrival
10:30 – 18:30 — Surrendered Leadership Circling
1h 30m of lunch break included

👋 Looking forward to being with you!

Peter, Alberte and Tomás

🌟 May the life force be with you 🌟