The Curiosity Game

The Curiosity Game is a great exercise for quickly landing in connection with friends or strangers. It allows for quite deep meetings within a very short timeframe and is great for introductions and beginnings of events.

The Curiosity Game
Setup: Pairs
Time: 10-15 minutes (one way)


1) Set up the game
– Team up with a friend, partner, family member or stranger.
– Designate roles: A and B
– Find a timer.

2) The game starts
A has 5 minutes to ask B any question they are really curious about. It is important that A only asks questions about which they are really curious.

B can answer or decline to answer any question.

3) Feedback
B gets 1 minute to give A feedback on the questions. Particularly if they liked some questions and if there were something else they would have liked to be asked.

4) Questions based on the feedback.
A gets 3 more minutes to ask questions, based on the feedback.

5) End the game
The game ends with A (the person who has asked the questions) finishing these three sentences:

– ”My first impression of you was…”
– ”The moment where I felt you the most was…”
– ”One thing I really get about you is…”

6) Continue
Switch roles or partner up with someone new.

This video was produced by Authentic Revolution.

Interested learning more Authentic Relating Games? Check out the Relating Games Manual for 200+ exercises to help you deepen connections and strengthen your self awareness.
https://www.authrev.org/ar-games-manual

Thank you For reading this!

This article was written by Peter Munthe-Kaas . If you feel like something is missing or want to add something feel free to get in touch.

Peter Munthe-Kaas

I am a Copenhagen based researcher, body therapist, coach and workshop facilitator. I am interested in practices that support me and others in relating and listening better and believe that the ability to relate to myself, others, society and nature is key to living a happy life in service of what is good in the world.
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