Radical Honesty

Radical Honesty is a practice for personal empowerment and growth through honest expression and transformative communication. It fosters greater freedom, self-awareness, forgiveness, and deeper intimacy.

What is Radical Honesty?

Radical Honesty seeks to create spaces where people feel free to express themselves, connect authentically with others, and continue to grow through ever-deepening self-awareness.

One foundational Radical Honesty skill is to report out loud to another person what you notice in front of you, in your body, and in your mind in the present moment. Radical Honesty is noticing your exprience, being with it, acknowledging it, and letting it come and go. When you experience an experience it comes and goes. When you resist an experience it persists.

Radical Honesty offers a process to directly express and get over anger, reach full body forgiveness, and create real connection with others. Being Radically Honest means you tell the people in your life what you’ve done and plan to do, what you think, and what you feel. It’s the kind of authentic sharing that creates the possibility of love, intimacy, aliveness, and action.

Radical Honesty is a way to create connections and to stay present to our experience and bodily sensations. Radical Honesty is direct communication that leads to intimacy.

Everything you can be aware of can be divided into 3 parts: 1) You can notice sensations in your body right now. 2) You can notice what’s going on outside of you in the world around you right now, and 3) You can notice what’s going on in your mind right now.

Noticing and reporting enhances the quality of your experience. When you report what you notice, how you feel about that changes and how you connect to others and the world intensifies.

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Where does it come from?

In Radical Honesty, we tend to see honesty more as sharing whatever is important, sharing moment to moment than focusing on technically not lying. Sharing openly what is important to us and what we are scared or embarrassed to share creates intimacy and connection.

Brad Blanton the founder of Radical Honesty, says Radical Honesty is an out loud meditation. It is sharing whatever is alive in you. Radical Honesty is also about sharing when we feel nervous, ashamed, embarrassed or excited to share. Sharing openly enables others around us to see us more and get to know us more.

Get to know us more as we truly are, with all the great stuff and the less great stuff – those things we would rather hide.

Radical Honesty was founded by dr Brad Blanton in the United States in 1990’s when he published a book Radical Honesty followed by Practicing Radical Honesty and started to offer weekend workshops and 8-Day Intensive workshops.

Radical Honesty stems from Gestalt therapy, group psychotherapies, and the work of Encounter groups, Milton Erickson and Fritz Pearls. It was developed by psychotherapist Brad Blanton in the US in 1980’s and currently workshops, coaching, company programs and retreats are offered in US and Europe.

Radical Honesty workshop with Pete and Tuulia

What does it look like?

“What do you notice in your body right now?”, is one of the questions you might hear quite a few times in Radical Honesty workshops.

This most likely happens when sitting in a circle of others and sharing something personal and maybe vulnerable about yourself. The idea is that noticing our physical sensations in the moment can help us to become more aware of our experience.
In the workshops all emotions are welcome and they are labeled as ”good” or ”bad”. This might mean someone expressing sadness and crying, another person laughing out loud and someone expressing their anger by yelling.

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e talk about topics often considered taboo — attraction, anger, money, sex, resentment, attraction — nothing is off-limits. In the workshop space people are invited to listen without fixing, allowing others to express themselves without interruption or advice.

Workshops and retreats are experiential and experimental. They include teaching, sharing in the group, facilitated conversations, paired and small group exercises, hot-seat work, grounding practices and meditation.

The core practice is honest sharing: noticing what is alive, sharing it and staying present with yourself and others. People
 are encouraged to allow sensations, thoughts and emotions to come and go.

The goal is practise distinguishing between thinking and noticing what is actually happening. The goal is to notice what happened (which we might be upset about) and all the stories we make about what happened and own our stories and interpretations as our creations rather than facts.

 

[Written by: Tuulia Syvänen]

Leaders of Radical honesty

These are the people in the Relating Arts network who leads Radical Honesty workshops.  

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Pete Jordan

In 2015, I nervously and reluctantly attended my first Radical Honesty workshop, which blew my mind. From there, I eagerly took part in dozens more workshops and transformed my life for the better by committing to live honestly, by expressing my resentments and appreciations in the moment and by asking for what I want.
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Tuulia Syvänen

Tuulia Syvänen is the certified Radical Honesty trainer who has led the most RH workshops in Europe. She also does 1:1 and couples coaching. For two decades, she held leadership positions at international, non-profit organizations that are concerned with social and environmental justice issues.
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Upcoming Radical Honesty events

These are the Radical Honesty events that are coming up in the Relating Arts network. 

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