Literature

Here you can find an ever expanding list of literature about relating.

Books about the relating arts

These are books that you will find on the bookshelves of many people who are into relating practice and while there is no replacement for practice, you can definitly find a lot of inspiration below. If you have ideas for more books to add here, please be in touch.  

conflict=energy

Conflict=Energy

by Jason Digges

A manual for human connection. Rather than seeing conflict as something to avoid or resolve, Digges reframes it as raw energy that can be redirected toward deeper intimacy and understanding.
end the stories that screw up your life book

End the Stories that Screw up your Life

by Ernest Holm Svendsen

A book about self inquiry and the Work of Byron Katie. A great introduction to how you can begin to understand yourself and your being in the world better by taking a serious look at the stories you are telling yourself.
Getting Real Book by Susan Campbell

Getting Real

by Susan Campbell

This book is an invitation to start participating in life, rather than controlling it. Getting Real points to a shift from controlling to relating through awareness and communication practices.
How minds change book

How Minds Change

by David McRaney

A great book on how to help others change their minds. Put shortly, it’s never about giving them the facts that you find useful, but always about creating a safe container and then really listening to them while they investigate their own process of reasoning.
How to live in the now

How to live in the Now

by Ernest Holm Svendsen

A brilliant little book about presence. Ernest supports you in getting out of your mind and into the present moment through simple exercises and good explanations.
Listen Book

Listen: How to find the words for tender conversations

by Kathryn Mannix

A really good book about the many ways in which we get in our own way in important conversations, full of good advice for how to have more compassionate, empathic and tender conversations.
Radical Honesty book

Radical Honesty

by Brad Blanton

A straight to the point, honest and very funny book about why your life would be better if you started telling the truth.
Reinventing Organizations book Frederic laloux

Reinventing Organizations

by Frederic Laloux

A book about the evolution of human organizations and a new emerging model of management and organizational structure focusing on self-organization, wholeness and evolutionary purpose as the foundations of their work.
The Elegant Self

The Elegant Self

by Robert Lundin McNamara

It was my first book that spoke more about stages of adult development and left me with excitement towards that field and wanting to discover more in the upcoming years.
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The Tao of Leadership

by John Heider

The Tao of Leadership is rewrites the Tao Te Ching as a guide for space holders and workshop facilitators and it works surprisingly well. The poetic language transmits something that is difficult to catch and opens for the deeper dimensions of what leadership is. 
The zen of you and me

The Zen of you and me

by Diane Musho Hamilton

Its one of those books where what you read makes sense and where you kind of already know the points, but it still nice to get in touch with again. I particularly enjoyed the parts about the importance of listening skills and Diane’s reflections on identity and identification.
With the end in mind book

With the End in Mind

by Kathryn Mannix

A deeply touching book about death and dying. Kathryn Mannix tells beautiful and sorrowful stories from her work as a paliative care nurse and writes about how to have conversations about and around the end of life.